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The State of Online Dating 2026

Online Dating & Dating App Statistics United Kingdom vs. the World 2026

How many singles search online, what are they looking for, and how do countries compare? This page turns every answer from our dating recommendation quiz into live, quotable statistics — updated monthly.

Updated October 2026 · N = 50,497 · collected across 18 country editions

6,645
Responses in this country
39.8%
Want a long-term relationship
27.8%
Women
44.6
Average age
25.8%
Are not single

What are singles looking for?

Relationship goals of respondents in this country. Filter by gender and age, the differences are bigger than you might think.

❤️ Long-term relationships 39.8%
🔥 Casual relationships 22.8%
💋 Flirting and fun dates 10.8%
👀 Exploring my options 13.5%
🔄 Swinging & Open Relationships 4.7%
🖤 BDSM & Fetish dating 3.9%
💎 Sugar Dating​ 4.4%
💞 Polyamorous relationships 0.2%

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Answer%N
❤️ Long-term relationships39.8%1
🔥 Casual relationships22.8%2
💋 Flirting and fun dates10.8%3
👀 Exploring my options13.5%4
🔄 Swinging & Open Relationships4.7%5
🖤 BDSM & Fetish dating3.9%6
💎 Sugar Dating​4.4%7
💞 Polyamorous relationships0.2%8

Who is dating online?

Gender and age of everyone who took the quiz.

👨‍🦱 Male 70.7%
👩‍🦰 Female 27.8%
⚧️ Trans 0.9%
🌈 Other 0.7%
Age distribution · average 44.6 · median 45
18-24 9.5%
25-34 20.1%
35-44 18.7%
45-54 22.8%
55-64 20.1%
65+ 8.8%
By generation
Gen Z19.8%1
Millennials31.6%2
Gen X35.4%3
Baby Boomers13.2%4

Relationship status

Not everyone searching is single.

👤 Single 74.2%
💍 Married 13.2%
🤷 It’s Complicated 7.1%
💑 In a Relationship 5.6%
25.8% of online daters say they are not single, they are married, in a relationship, or “it’s complicated”.

Beyond mainstream dating

Sugar dating, swinging & open relationships, BDSM & fetish, polyamory, the share of respondents naming each as their goal.

4.7%
🔄 Swinging & Open Relationships
1 respondents
3.9%
🖤 BDSM & Fetish dating
2 respondents
4.4%
💎 Sugar Dating​
3 respondents
0.2%
💞 Polyamorous relationships
4 respondents
Men Women
🔄 Swinging & Open Relationships
Men 5.1%
Women 1.9%
🖤 BDSM & Fetish dating
Men 5%
Women 1.8%
💎 Sugar Dating​
Men 3.3%
Women 5.6%
💞 Polyamorous relationships
Men 0.2%
Women 0.1%
17.2% of women aged 18-29 name sugar dating as their goal, among women 45 and older it is just 1.2%.

Country vs. country

The same questions, asked in every country edition, compare any two markets, or sort the full table.

Country N Long-term Casual Women Avg. age Not single
United States 19,668 39.2% 20.8% 30.8% 39.7 21.8%
Germany 9,927 44.5% 23.8% 24.2% 46.1 31%
United Kingdom 6,645 39.8% 22.8% 27.8% 44.6 25.8%
Spain 3,840 36.9% 38.6% 19.5% 42.6 23%
Austria 2,141 46.8% 24.3% 25% 45.5 28.6%
Australia 1,620 34.7% 28.3% 23% 45.6 27.7%
Switzerland 1,601 46% 24.2% 26.4% 46.8 33.9%
New Zealand 1,049 41.7% 18.6% 31.2% 44.3 22.8%
Italy 620 33% 31.4% 23.2% 46.9 37.3%
Singapore 612 31.2% 23.4% 26.6% 36 30.3%
Sweden 551 59.3% 15.7% 42% 49.1 19%
Hong Kong SAR China 521 35.1% 21% 24.8% 37.4 25.4%
Netherlands 390 36.2% 18.3% 21.1% 47.7 29.4%
Denmark 378 63.9% 20.1% 41% 49.7 19.1%
Hungary 328 70.7% 17.2% 47% 46 17%
Finland 238 51.8% 23.1% 24.4% 47.5 18.4%
Brazil 145 54% 23.9% 46.2% 43.6 17.4%
France 138 46.4% 34.8% 30.4% 40.6 14.5%

What they want in a partner

The traits respondents picked most (multiple answers allowed, all countries).

Most-wanted personality traits
😂 Sense of humor 52.3%
🧠 Open-minded 50.7%
❤️ Compassionate 43.3%
✅ Verified profile 37.2%
✈️ Loves traveling 27.6%
🍳 Enjoys cooking 26.1%
🎵 Into music/musician 22.2%
🏡 Homeowner 22%
👪 Family-oriented 20.9%
📚 Enjoys reading 19.4%
Most-wanted physical traits
💇‍♀️ Long hair 40%
🚶‍♀️ Slim build 37.4%
✨ Doesn’t matter 31.8%
🏋️ Athletic build 31.5%
🍑 Curvy 27.3%
💇‍♂️ Short hair 26.8%
📏 Tall 26.6%
😊 Clean-shaven 17.9%
🌱 Short 16.4%
🖋️ Tattoos 12.7%
Where men and women differ most

Share of men and of women naming each answer, sorted by the gap in percentage points. · 21,731 men · 8,954 women

🏡 Homeowner
Men 16.2%
Women 36.1%
19.9 points · more women
✈️ Loves traveling
Men 22.3%
Women 41%
18.7 points · more women
👪 Family-oriented
Men 16.6%
Women 32%
15.4 points · more women
❤️ Compassionate
Men 40%
Women 51.4%
11.4 points · more women
📚 Enjoys reading
Men 16.2%
Women 26.9%
10.7 points · more women
🍳 Enjoys cooking
Men 23.4%
Women 32.8%
9.4 points · more women
🗣️ Socially active
Men 13.8%
Women 22.6%
8.8 points · more women
🛐 Religious
Men 5.8%
Women 13.1%
7.3 points · more women

What rules someone out

Share of respondents naming each deal-breaker (several answers possible), men and women side by side.

Not enough answers yet, this question is new in the quiz. The chart appears at 100 answers.

Children: have them, want them?

Whether respondents have children and whether they want (more).

Not enough answers yet, this question is new in the quiz. The chart appears at 100 answers.

Online dating track record

How many people respondents have met in person through online dating, and how often a relationship came out of it.

Not enough answers yet, this question is new in the quiz. The chart appears at 100 answers.

Hot topics: what singles would accept

Each of these questions is shown to a random part of the participants at the end of the quiz, so the number of answers is stated per question.

Would you date someone who earns much less than you?

Not enough answers yet, this question is new in the quiz. The chart appears at 100 answers.

How tall should your partner be at least?

Not enough answers yet, this question is new in the quiz. The chart appears at 100 answers.

And how tall are you?

Not enough answers yet, this question is new in the quiz. The chart appears at 100 answers.

Would you date someone who publishes erotic content on OnlyFans?

Not enough answers yet, this question is new in the quiz. The chart appears at 100 answers.

Would you date someone who cheated in a previous relationship?

Not enough answers yet, this question is new in the quiz. The chart appears at 100 answers.

Would you date someone with completely different political views?

Not enough answers yet, this question is new in the quiz. The chart appears at 100 answers.

Would you date someone who is currently unemployed?

Not enough answers yet, this question is new in the quiz. The chart appears at 100 answers.

Could you imagine an open relationship?

Not enough answers yet, this question is new in the quiz. The chart appears at 100 answers.

Would you date someone who smokes regularly?

Not enough answers yet, this question is new in the quiz. The chart appears at 100 answers.

Does it matter to you how many people your partner has slept with?

Not enough answers yet, this question is new in the quiz. The chart appears at 100 answers.

Who should pay on the first date?

Not enough answers yet, this question is new in the quiz. The chart appears at 100 answers.

Would you date someone who uses AI to write their dating messages?

Not enough answers yet, this question is new in the quiz. The chart appears at 100 answers.

Would you date someone who has children from a previous relationship?

Not enough answers yet, this question is new in the quiz. The chart appears at 100 answers.

How much older or younger may your partner be?

Not enough answers yet, this question is new in the quiz. The chart appears at 100 answers.

Do you want to get married one day?

Not enough answers yet, this question is new in the quiz. The chart appears at 100 answers.

Who the respondents are

Education, work, income and ethnicity across all countries.

Education
📜 College Graduate/Bachelor’s Degree 25.9%
🎓 Postgraduate (Master’s or PhD) 18.9%
🚌 High School Graduate 17.6%
📘 Some College 14.5%
🔧 Vocational/Technical Training 14.5%
❓ Other 8.6%
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📜 College Graduate/Bachelor’s Degree25.9%1
🎓 Postgraduate (Master’s or PhD)18.9%2
🚌 High School Graduate17.6%3
📘 Some College14.5%4
🔧 Vocational/Technical Training14.5%5
❓ Other8.6%6
Work status
💼 Full-time Employee 54.7%
🕒 Part-time Employee 12.8%
🔍 Unemployed 11.4%
💡 Entrepreneur 10.7%
📱 Freelancer 10.3%
👤 Single 0%
🤷 It’s Complicated 0%
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💼 Full-time Employee54.7%1
🕒 Part-time Employee12.8%2
🔍 Unemployed11.4%3
💡 Entrepreneur10.7%4
📱 Freelancer10.3%5
👤 Single0%6
🤷 It’s Complicated0%7
Annual income
💸 Less than $25k/year 87.7%
💵 $25k-$50k/year 0.4%
💰 $50k-$100k/year 0.4%
💼 $100k-$200k/year 0.1%
🏦 $200k-$500k/year 0.1%
💎 $500k-$1M/year 0%
👑 More than $1M/year 11.3%
View as table
💸 Less than $25k/year87.7%1
💵 $25k-$50k/year0.4%2
💰 $50k-$100k/year0.4%3
💼 $100k-$200k/year0.1%4
🏦 $200k-$500k/year0.1%5
💎 $500k-$1M/year0%6
👑 More than $1M/year11.3%7
Ethnicity
🖐🏻 White 78.6%
🖐🏼 Asian 5.6%
🖐 Mixed/Other 5.3%
🖐🏿 Black 3.4%
🖐🏽 Latin 3.3%
🖐🏾 Indian 2.7%
🖐🏽 Arabic 1.1%
🚶‍♀️ Slim build 0%
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🖐🏻 White78.6%1
🖐🏼 Asian5.6%2
🖐 Mixed/Other5.3%3
🖐🏿 Black3.4%4
🖐🏽 Latin3.3%5
🖐🏾 Indian2.7%6
🖐🏽 Arabic1.1%7
🚶‍♀️ Slim build0%8

Dating app statistics: how singles use dating sites & apps

Time budgets, preferred ways to connect and what singles expect from a dating app or site (all countries).

Time available for dating
⌛ I can spend a few hours a week 48.5%
🕰️ I have plenty of time to dedicate 36.1%
⏳ I have limited time 15.5%
🖐🏻 White 0%
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⌛ I can spend a few hours a week48.5%1
🕰️ I have plenty of time to dedicate36.1%2
⏳ I have limited time15.5%3
🖐🏻 White0%4
Preferred way to connect
💬 Text messages 40.4%
✨ Doesn’t matter 31.6%
🤝 In-person meetups 19.8%
🎥 Video calls 5.9%
📞 Voice calls 2.1%
✨ Doesn’t matter 0.2%
View as table
💬 Text messages40.4%1
✨ Doesn’t matter31.6%2
🤝 In-person meetups19.8%3
🎥 Video calls5.9%4
📞 Voice calls2.1%5
✨ Doesn’t matter0.2%6
Preferred type of dating site
📺 Free with ads 46.5%
💰 Affordable options 34.5%
💎 Premium features 19%
🤝 Members who are serious and respectful 0%
View as table
📺 Free with ads46.5%1
💰 Affordable options34.5%2
💎 Premium features19%3
🤝 Members who are serious and respectful0%4

Methodology

This page is based on 50497 responses to our dating recommendation quiz, collected between 2025-01 and 2026-10 across 18 country editions. The sample is self-selected: it describes people actively looking for a dating site, not the general population. Percentages always refer to the respondents who answered the respective question; multi-select questions can add up to more than 100%. Age is derived from the birth date given in the quiz. All figures may be quoted freely, please link to this page as the source.
How to cite this study
Datingscout UK (2026). The State of Online Dating 2026: Online Dating & Dating App Statistics United Kingdom vs. the World 2026. Retrieved from https://www.datingscout.co.uk/online-dating-statistics