"This is one of the few dating sites I encountered that offered the Blur edit, so it was convenient that I could "anonymise" my photo right before it gets public in the website. I got messages from interested women within 24 hours after my registration. I believe it really is a website for confidential affairs because the women I talked to were honest about their intention to cheat. I have to say kudos to this "panic button"! It saved my life more than a couple of times. I dare say that a cheating dating site like Victoria Milan refueled my passion. If you wanna experience what I just went through in this secret dating website, you are gonna have some crazy fun."
- Andrew, 33
Victoria Milan Review UK October 2026
Is Victoria Milan dating a match for your desire or a pit for your card? Let’s find out. All about Victoria Milan in the UK.
3.5good
Victoria Milan is a dating site for married and attached people focused on discreet affairs
- More than 6 million registered users worldwide
- Anonymous Blur for photos and Panic Button
Cheating
Casual dating
Hookups
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Members in the UK150,000
Women / Men
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Victoria Milan UK in 10 seconds
- Built specifically for married and attached people, so everyone on the site understands the situation
- Discretion is the core focus, not an afterthought
- Unique privacy tools include an Anonymous Blur for photos and a Panic Button that instantly redirects your screen if someone walks in
- More than 6 million registered users worldwide, with around 60% male - Learn more about Victoria Milan's member structure
- Cancellation requires advance notice before renewal - Deleting the app does not cancel your subscription
- Messaging and advanced features require a paid plan
- Available on iOS and Android, free to download
Is Victoria Milan right for you?
Find out if Victoria Milan is the right service for you or if there are better options.
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Who is Victoria Milan for, and not for?
Victoria Milan is for…
- Married or attached people who want to have a discreet affair
- Singles interested in being involved with committed individuals
- People who are looking for erotic adventures
…and not for
- Real women and men trying to find serious relationships
- People who are in a happy, healthy, and fulfilling relationship
- Married people who are trying to stay away from temptation
Victoria Milan pros & cons
- Members can blur their profile photo to be anonymous
- You can have private photos which you have the option to share with trusted members only
- Members are like-minded when it comes to discreet dating
- Anonymity in credit card billing – your charge will look like it was billed by a restaurant
- Premium subscription can be hard to cancel
- Customer service is often unresponsive to complaints
- Women scammers lurk in the site
- No 1-month premium subscription – the shortest duration you have to commit is 3-months membership
What Victoria Milan really costs in the UK
Compared with other dating services, Victoria Milan is more expensive than most.
Premium Silver
You get unlimited access to all members, but free members can't contact you.
1 month premium subscription with unlimited chat, likes, views, private photos, gifts and winks. Renews every month unless you cancel on time.Total
1 month
42.57 GBP / month
42.57 GBP
Premium Gold
You get unlimited access to all members, but free members can't contact you.
3 month premium subscription with unlimited chat, likes, views, private photos, gifts and winks. Renews unless you cancel at least 7 days before it ends.Total
3 months
25.54 GBP / month
76.62 GBP
Premium Platinum
You get unlimited access to all members, but free members can't contact you.
6 month premium subscription with unlimited chat, likes, views, private photos, gifts and winks. Renews unless you cancel at least 7 days before it ends.Total
6 months
17.02 GBP / month
102.14 GBP
Premium Diamond
You get unlimited access to all members, but free members can't contact you.
12 month premium subscription with unlimited chat, likes, views, private photos, gifts and winks. Renews unless you cancel at least 7 days before it ends.Total
12 months
12.76 GBP / month
153.18 GBP
Premium Plus (Add-on)
Allow free members to see your profile, message and chat with you anytime.
Monthly add on that lets non paying women read and send messages and boosts your visibility. Free for the first month with premium, then billed monthly.Total
1 month
25.54 GBP / month
25.54 GBP
Victoria Milan costs last updated on Oct 20, 2026
Payment options in the UK
Credit CardPaysafecardiDEALApp Store
No anonymous payment.With Victoria Milan you cannot pay anonymously, the charge appears on your bank statement.
On your bank statement
Victoria Milan says it does not publish the statement name
Victoria Milan costs screenshot
Your premium subscription will automatically renew at the same price and duration unless you cancel at least seven days before the end of the current period. With the 3-month premium plan, you'll have unlimited access to all members, but note that free members cannot contact you.
For enhanced interaction, you can add the monthly Premium Plus add-on, allowing all non-paying women to read and send messages, boosting your popularity by 2x. This add-on is complimentary for the first month when you opt for the premium plan but will be billed monthly afterwards.
You can also use Victoria Milan promo codes to avail of bonuses, discounts, or access to premium features, enhancing your overall experience on the platform.
You can cancel your paid membership on our website by giving a notice before the subscription period ends. For the Premium Basic (1 month) and Premium Gold (3 months) packages, you must give at least 14 days notice. For the Premium Platinum (6 months) and Premium Diamond (12 months) packages, you must give at least 28 days' notice.
Free vs. paid services in the UK
FeatureFreePremium SilverPremium GoldPremium PlatinumPremium Diamond
Registration
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Create a profile
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AnonymousBlur ToolA tool to conceal your identity in uploaded photos. You can blur your face or put a sticker on it.
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Panic ButtonA small button at the lower right of the website for sudden threats.
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Search Filters
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BlogMembers can read and share opinions on blog posts.
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Language OptionsChange the site language to your native language by clicking the flag of your country.
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EliteMeetsBeauty (EmB)Access to the sister site EliteMeetsBeauty.
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Like ProfilesSending likes is complimentary, but only premium users can view admirers.
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Unlimited chat
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See who liked you
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See who viewed you
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Ask for private photos
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Send giftsGifts use Credits and are bought separately.
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Unlimited likes
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Send and see the winks
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Free members can register, build a profile, use the AnonymousBlur Tool, Panic Button, search filters, blogs, language options, EmB, and like profiles.
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Try Victoria Milan free →Who is signed up on Victoria Milan in the UK?
Exclusively on DatingScout: online member numbers for dating services are usually far off, so we estimate how many people are really on Victoria Milan from traffic data and interest, updated monthly, with history.
It might be a bit of a shock for some that a cheating site will have more than six million members worldwide. Those who register on the site are either married or committed members looking for affairs outside their marriages or relationships. You will also find single members on the site who are interested in being involved with committed individuals.
Based on available data, members of the 25–34 age bracket have the highest percentage in the total population. There are also more males than females in Victoria Milan.
Most members come from European countries. This includes Poland, Sweden, and the Netherlands. Still, there are members signed up all over the world.
Others join the site to feel the thrill and excitement of cheating. Others say they use it to release the stress and pressure in their relationships.
Since the site is available in multiple countries, you are expected to meet members of different nationalities and cultures but with the same intention of adding some thrill to their lives.
5,390+61%
Estimated active members in the UK
40,000
Weekly active members in the UK
150,000
Members in the UK
2.8
App Store rating in the UK
2.2
Google Play rating worldwide
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Estimated active members, last 6 months
Gender
18%
18-24
33%
25-34
20%
35-44
15%
45-54
14%
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Age of members
Last data update: October 2026
How does Victoria Milan work?
Sign up for free with basic details and a username, no real name needed
Build an anonymous profile using the blur tool or mask sticker on your photos
Browse members by location, age, and preferences without revealing your exact location
Send winks for free or upgrade to message and start real conversations
Use the Panic Button on desktop to instantly redirect your screen if someone walks in
Signing up at Victoria Milan
★★★★★ 3.0/5
Sign up with
Username & password
Where
Website, iOS and Android app
Minimum age
18
Browse without an account
No
Required information
- Username
- Date of birth
- Location
- Your gender
- Your relationship status
- Type of relationship wanted
- Partner's gender
- Your physical appearance
Optional information
- Profile picture upload
Verification
- Email verification required
Making contact on Victoria Milan
★★★★★ 3.0/5
- Send winks to interesting members
- Private Keys for exclusive photos
- Send virtual gifts using your credits
- Change countries to get lots of hotties
- Add notable users to your favourites list
- You can reply for free once a premium member contacts you
- Victoria Milan has a chat function
Profile quality
★★★★★ 3.0/5
- A complete profile boosts your popularity
- Profile photos are most likely anonymous
- Dating locations are based on countries and nearby areas
- See the user's date of registration and last login date
- Profiles are moderately detailed
- Profile pictures are visible to everybody for free
- You can edit your profile information later
The Victoria Milan app
★★★★★ 3.0/5
- Available on the Apple App Store and Google Play Store
- People Nearby is a unique app feature
- Features may take quite a while to load
- The Panic button is not included
- A callout box is available to address your concern
Aside from the desktop site, Victoria Milan is also available on your mobile device and free to download on the Apple App Store and Google Play Store. But there are also other app stores that have it, like APK Pure.
The site also has a mobile version, which has a similar interface to the app—features are located on the left; quick tabs for new, online, and favourite members are at the bottom.
Be warned: The Panic Button is missing in the app. So you better prepare your exit strategy ahead of time!
Our field test
★★★★★ 3.0/5
My officemate mentioned this app to me, and at first, I was confused why he was using such an app. I discovered that he is unhappily married although he still loves his wife. So I thought maybe it’s just a phase. But a few months ago, I started having problems with my wife too. Then I remembered my officemate. I realised that he was using the app to remove the pressure from his marriage. I signed up and now, I’ve been using it for a month. I found an outlet for my stress, and now, my relationship with my wife is improving. I just hope she never finds out what I am doing because I am really having fun with Victoria Milan.
- John, 36
Design & usability
You may find it easy to use both the website and mobile versions of Victoria Milan. This affair dating site has a consistent interface over all of its platforms. Thus, you can easily switch between your devices, specifically (and probably) one that is out of your partner's reach.
Same with the website version, your home page is loaded with featured users from the country you are checking. Some of the features may take more time to load but still, the app gets the job done. Your picks are aligned in neat rows and big image sizes.
People prefer using the app version however, it would be better if they will be adding the panic button to the app as well.
In case you might be needing any help in using Victoria Milan, they have provided a message bubble at the lower right of the app so that your concerns are easily addressed.
Special features
Check out Victoria Milan's special features:
Finding people 3
Features UsersFree
Victoria Milan doesn’t want your matches limited to members only nearest you. This feature will you introduce to members all around the globe.
Switch from one country to another. You will be able to check out the hotties of the world, and at the same time be featured as their matches as well!
SearchFree
This feature is exclusive for the members-only nearest you. This might be the fastest route to your next affair.
VisitsFree
Your visitors are enumerated in this feature. You may be able to visit their profiles and leave winks or comments.
Showing interest 3
GiftsPaid
Victoria Milan has added virtual gifts to give more flair to your secret dating experience. You will have it in this feature: received and sent gifts. However, you may have to use credit to be able to buy someone gifts. Don’t worry because Victoria Milan will take you straight to the page for you to get your credit.
Like ProfilesFree
Victoria Milan's 'Like Profiles' lets you freely show interest in appealing profiles. While sending likes is complimentary, only premium users can view their admirers
Send winksFree
You can send winks to members you're interested in. It's a great way to grab their attention and can often be the perfect icebreaker to start a conversation.
Community and events 1
BlogFree
Victoria Milan users get to share their thoughts and experiences with the VM community by posting blogs on the blog section. All Victoria Milan members can read and share their opinions on members' blog posts.
Safety and privacy 4
AnonymousBlur ToolFree
Victoria Milan a tool to conceal your identity in the photos you upload. You have two options to use this feature: blur out your face or put a sticker on it. The most used sticker is the mask.
Panic ButtonFree
The last thing you need in a secret dating site is getting caught by your partner. So, when sudden threats happen, Victoria Milan made it easier for you to escape by introducing the Panic button.
This is the small “PANIC” button located at the lower right of the website. Click on it and you will be redirected to another website – a safe website that eliminates suspicion. When we tested the Panic button, we were redirected to YouTube.
Verify IdentityFree
Verify your identity through SMS or photo verification and boost your popularity by tenfold.
Private KeysPaid
This is another feature of Victoria Milan's premium plans that allows you to see private photos of other members. In this feature, you will see all the requests you got and all the ones you sent. You can get more attention if they see you have exclusive photos for them.
Other extras 1
Language OptionsFree
Wherever you are in the world, whichever language you speak, you can change the site language to your native language. Just simply click the flag of your country at the bottom of the site.
Final results
3.5good
“If you are a married or an attached individual seeking to spice up his or her sexual game by engaging in an affair, then Victoria Milan might be the safest site to sign up to.”
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tested October 2026
Signup3.0
Making contact3.0
Profile quality3.0
App3.0
Field test3.0
Overall3.5/ 5
Alternatives: Better than Victoria Milan
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3 Victoria Milan experiences from real users in the UK
1/ 5
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What readers complained about
- Fake messages from women
- Bots sending messages
- No real accounts
- Scam claims
- Hard to cancel subscription
47 years
Dan
★★★★★
Not much I`m afraid
Basically it`s a scam. Before signing up to Premium you`ll get lots of notifications of women liking you, checking you out, adding you as their favourites etc. Once you pay though, these notifications dry up and if you actually get somebody to message you once, they`ll then disappear or tell you that they`re at a funeral in Greece. Trying to cancel is a complete nightmare. No links or areas on the site to cancel your subscription and you have to submit a request. And once you do, there`s no confirmation that your request has actually been sent. Stay away from this site, it is utter garbage
Does not recommend Victoria Milan
37 years
Mike
★★★★★
the site is a scam. Bots are sending you messages.
Does not recommend Victoria Milan
56 years
sparkey 365
★★★★★
Only been on a week paid my subscription. Have had many many messages all from non genuine people, many scammers, many many foreign women pretending to be in uk, asking to go off site on hangouts or email and then redirecting. WASTE OF TIME AND MONEY. Not found any real accounts from real people ... Given my alias email
Does not recommend Victoria Milan
Cancelling your Victoria Milan subscription
How you can cancel
- Via your profile settings on Victoria Milan
Contact details
| Company | Nextlove Limited |
|---|---|
| Address | The Hub, Suite E105 Triq SantÁndrija San Gwann, Malta, SGN 1612 |
| support@victoriamilan.com |
Do subscriptions auto-renew?
Subscriptions renew automatically, cancel at least 7 days before your current term ends.
Money-back guarantee
- Victoria Milan refunds part of your money (partial refund)
- You have 14 days to cancel and get your money back
Refunds are given based on the price of unused subscription days.
Victoria Milan FAQ
What is Victoria Milan?
Victoria Milan is a dating platform built specifically for married and attached people seeking discreet affairs, with more than 6 million registered users worldwide and around 60% male membership. It includes privacy-focused tools like an Anonymous Blur for photos and a Panic Button that instantly redirects the screen if someone walks in, and is available on both iOS and Android.
Is there a Victoria Milan app available?
Yes. You can download the app versions for free in Google Play Store, Apple App Store, and APK Pure.
Does Victoria Milan have a blog section?
Yes. You can enjoy reading a selection of articles by Victoria Milan.
USABILITY
How does Victoria Milan work?
Victoria Milan provides married and attached individuals with a dating website where they can seek secret affairs. What this dating site does is match your information with the other members' information without completely revealing your identity. You can safely hide your face using the Anonymizer tools.
What are the Anonymiser tools?
It is a feature on Victoria Milan that you can use to hide your face or your identity on your photo before uploading it.
How to use Victoria Milan for free?
After filling out the registration forms, you will be directed to your matches. You are free to browse, like, and favourite the user you fancy. If you want to send messages, you will have to buy the premium subscription.
Why can't I see my photos?
All photos in Victoria Milan are reviewed before they can be uploaded. The following types of photos are not allowed: photos of someone else (including celebrities), group photos, photos with obscene content, drawings, landscapes, and photos that violate anyone else's rights.
Is it possible to change the site language?
Yes. To set Victoria Milan dating website in a different language, click the flag icon at the bottom part of the site and choose the county's flag of your chosen language.
Is there a Victoria Milan free trial?
No, there is no free trial in Victoria Milan. But it is free to register and create a basic account.
ACCOUNT
How to delete Victoria Milan account?
On the bottom right of the website, click on Settings. Scroll down to the bottom until you see Deactivate Profile. To completely delete your profile, click on “this form.” And then hit “Send Request.”
How to deactivate my account?
Victoria Milan offers profile deactivation so that you can temporarily disable your account. You may not receive any emails while your profile is deactivated.
To deactivate your account, hit Settings. Scroll down to Deactivate Profile and click on it. You will be asked for your reason for taking a break. Finally, enter your password and click “Deactivate Profile.”
Take note that your account cannot be completely deleted; the site will still keep all of your details so you can reactivate anytime you want.
How to cancel Victoria Milan subscription?
You may terminate your Premium Membership at any time, for any reason, effective from the first payment period after receipt of your written notice of termination, provided you are not in an initial signup period. In which case, you will be charged for the entire amount of the initial signup period.
Notice of termination may be delivered to the address contained in the Contact Us section of the Website.
Termination of membership will not result in the deletion of your profile. When you terminate your account, your profile will no longer be visible to other Members, but it will remain in the company’s database. If you wish to delete your profile, contact Victoria Milan through email.
SECURITY
How can my account get verified in Victoria Milan?
Verifying your account means that you are a real person. Get verified through your Facebook account, Google+, Windows Live, or your mobile number.
Is Victoria Milan safe?
Since safety is a top priority in Victoria Milan, the site has created a security system composed of Norton, SSL Trust, 256-bit encryption, and Amazon web services to ensure an anonymous experience.
Is Victoria Milan legit?
Through verification of e-mails during registration, Victoria Milan promises that they have real accounts from real people.
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Security
- Does Victoria Milan sell your data?
- No, Victoria Milan does not sell your data.
- Was Victoria Milan hacked in the past?
- No, Victoria Milan was never hacked.
- How accurately does Victoria Milan track your location?
- Victoria Milan tracks your approximate location.
- Do your Victoria Milan profile pictures or profile information appear in Google Search Results?
- No, your Victoria Milan photos and personal information will not appear in Google Search Results.
- Who can view your pictures on Victoria Milan?
- All Victoria Milan users can view your pictures.
- Is your phone number required for signing up at Victoria Milan?
- No, you can sign up at Victoria Milan without a phone number.
- Can you erase your personal data on Victoria Milan?
- Yes, Victoria Milan provides an option for users to erase their data.
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