- Do not give your personal details
Adult dating is a short-term thing. So there is no need for you to divulge any personal things about yourself. Even if you have sex with the other person, you cannot still be sure if he or she is worth to be entrusted with that sensitive information. Identity theft is one of the worst examples of consequences that you might face if you share unnecessary details with strangers.
Of course, later on during your date, you will have to find a private place to do your stuff. But you can both agree to meet up first in a place where it is safe and where you can let yourself analyze how you feel about that person in terms of safety. Are you comfortable being alone with that person? Do you feel any danger coming your way? At least you will still have enough time to back out in case you feel that it’s unsafe.
- As much possible, let someone know your whereabouts
You might have at least one person who knows all your secrets. So if you are meeting a stranger, you can send the details of where you are going or who you are meeting to your trusted person. Although there are people who are confident that they can take care of themselves, there’s nothing to lose if somebody else will know where you are.
- Be firm enough to decline any offers that you are not comfortable with
Not a fan of BDSM? Say no. Not into doing it in public places? Turn it down. Cannot do it without protection? Insist. Everything that will be done in the bedroom should be consensual.
If you are out there hunting for your sex-mate, be sure to always bring protection. This is to save you and the other person some time. It will really kill the mood if you still need to go to the convenience store to buy condoms so you can have sex safely. Practicing safe sex is the best way to protect yourself from acquiring sexually transmitted infections.
It doesn’t have to be every day. It would depend on how active you are in the hot adult dating arena. This is important to early detect and cure any infections or disease caused by unsafe sexual intercourse with an infected person. There’s nothing to be ashamed of because it’s just a normal checkup routine. Also, please do this as a favor to the person with who you will be having sex next.