I joined The Inner Circle last month, well, I almost didn't. The site made me wait for the screening test result for days that I have forgotten about it after I received their confirmation email. My biggest concern at the moment, after the first 24 hours that I still haven't heard from them, was if I am going to get notified if I didn't pass their screening test. I am able to create close friends in the site but haven't found what I can call a "partner" yet. I hope I do soon, but since I don't have that much time to go out and join their exclusive parties, I'm not that confident about it. - Laura, 25
The Inner Circle UK October 2026
- Every application reviewed manually
- Member meetups in different cities
The Inner Circle UK in 10 seconds
- The Inner Circle is a curated dating community that connects ambitious professional singles all over the globe, positioning itself as a members club rather than just a dating app
- Every application is manually reviewed by a membership team, making fake profiles extremely rare
- Members tend to be highly educated, with careers ranging from CEOs and founders to creatives and managers - Learn more about the members here
- The standout Who's Up For feature lets members connect spontaneously with others ready for a drink or coffee nearby
- Daily Picks refreshes your profile suggestions every day, giving you a new set of standout members to discover
- Exclusive real-life events are a core part of the experience, letting you meet matches in person in curated settings
- The approval process can take time, which may frustrate users looking for a quick sign-up experience
- Available for iOS and Android users with a recently redesigned Home Hub experience
Better than The Inner Circle
Who is The Inner Circle for, and not for?
- For people looking for serious relationships with like-minded individuals
- For singles who want to fall in love with professionals who have good careers
- For professional singles who are looking for potential partners
- People who are seeking casual dates and hookups
- People who have less educational backgrounds
- People who are not working professionals
The Inner Circle pros & cons
- The website is highly selective of its members
- All profiles are verified for their authenticity
- Members get access to exclusive events
- The approval of accounts take too much time
- The personality test is lengthy and taks too long to pass
- Photo guidelines are strict
What The Inner Circle really costs in the UK
Upon subscription, you automatically agree with the terms of use and privacy policy of The Inner Circle. To avoid any disruption, your subscription will be automatically extended. The trial subscription of one week will prolong into a 1-month subscription. Normal subscriptions will be extended with the same duration. You can cancel the automatic renewal at any time before the renewal date under "My Account."
How to cancel your The Inner Circle subscription →
Is The Inner Circle right for me?Who is signed up on The Inner Circle in the UK?
Exclusively on DatingScout: online member numbers for dating services are usually far off, so we estimate how many people are really on The Inner Circle from traffic data and interest, updated monthly, with history.
Most members do not respond immediately to "likes" and "winks." "Spot" and "Events" get the most activities inside the site. People like posting about the bar, restaurant, or club that they are in.
There are also exclusive events which you can only attend after you buy a ticket. These activities are regulated by The Inner Circle so safety should not be an issue. The upcoming events are visible even to non-paying members with date and location. These events, however, are held inside closed venues so gate-crashing is not an option.
Last data update: October 2026
How does The Inner Circle work?
Signing up at The Inner Circle
★★★★★ 2.5/5
Required information
- Date of birth
- Your gender
- Your occupation
- Personal questionnaire
- Profile picture upload
Optional information
- Your ethnicity
- Your religion
- Profile bio / greeting
- Your physical appearance
Verification
- Email verification required
Inner Circle reviews your application and will notify you via email if you're approved or if your status changes. You'll receive a separate email with a code for login, which you have up to 2 hours to use; you can request a new code if it expires.
Making contact on The Inner Circle
★★★★★ 3.0/5
- Reading and sending private messages are for premium members only.
- You may reply to another member's invitation to go out that is posted on his or her profile.
- You may send welcome messages to new members.
- There is a feature that allows you to buy a ticket to join an exclusive meet-up party near you.
- You may send a "wink" to people you like.
- Sending messages for free is not possible
Profile quality
★★★★★ 3.5/5
- All photos are available even for non-paying members.
- You will see the city of residence, university, height, and work position of a member inside the profile.
- Profile information focuses on education background and career.
- Profiles are moderately detailed
- Profile pictures are visible to everybody for free
- You can edit your profile information later
- Photo albums can be updated later.
The The Inner Circle app
★★★★★ 3.0/5
- The design is clear and appropriate.
- All features in the site are available in the app.
- The app is available for Android and Apple devices.
- It is free to download.
- The app will save your location and post on the site.
The app looks as good and works as smooth as the website. However, if you are someone who takes your privacy policy seriously, you have to make sure that your GPS is turned off because the app saves your location and posts it on your The Inner Circle profile under the "Last Seen On..." section. The general location will be posted after a few days which will be visible to everyone in the site. The app is also more convenient to use than the website because all the functionalities are available and you can take it everywhere through your phone.
Our field test
★★★★★ 2.5/5
Design & usability
The design of both the website and the app looks good. It feels well-maintained as reflected on its performance. It comes in a blue colour tone that is not irritating to the eyes compared to other dating sites that use intense colours. The icons and buttons are unique and creatively-executed. Overall, the design looks really professional which singles in their target group will definitely like.
Special features
The Inner Circle has unique features that allow its members to meet up in a more organised fashion:
Finding people 3
Trips
See where your matches are heading next.
Spots
Add a place, like a bar or a restaurant, where you will mostly be spending your time.
Inner Circle Widget
The dating app has developed a widget for smartphones and iPhones with the latest updates. The widget will update every five minutes to show a potential match. It uses the app's algorithms and the member's personal preferences to suggest the most compatible people nearby.
Messaging and contact 1
The Date Conscious Suite
The Date Conscious Suite provides reminders, closure messages, and additional prompts to encourage users to respond to other users' messages rather than not responding or 'ghosting.'
Community and events 2
EventsFree
Create or join parties and events in different places.
My TicketsPaid
Buy tickets to join exclusive meet-ups and events.
Safety and privacy 1
Ghost Mode
Browse through profiles anonymously.
Final results

“From the registration stage, it is noticeable that The Inner Circle dating site puts a great value on a person's career. After successfully joining with an active Facebook or LinkedIn account, the site asks for a job title. This step is required alongside uploading a photo to proceed with the screening test. Now, even if you finish answering all of their pre-membership questions, you will have to wait for their approval. Some have waited for days, weeks, and others were not approved at all. This "elite" attribute may not be suitable as it creates barriers for those who are sincere but in a hurry to look for love instead of connecting them together. For more recommendations, you may check our Matchmaker category.”
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2 The Inner Circle experiences from real users in the UK
- An interesting overall experience
- Few men made contact
- Encounters with several suspected scammers
- Unclear value of paid access
Very few men contacted me...I did send out quite a few winks initially as how else do you match up with someone? I'm not interested in paying for it unless I feel it's worthwhile and I think the guys don't have to pay? So I don't think much of this service at this point.
Met a few scammers. My extensive research skills help me to identify if a person is really who they say they are or if they are lying. Overall interesting experience.
Cancelling your The Inner Circle subscription
How you can cancel
- Via your profile settings on The Inner Circle
Contact details
| Company | Circle Imperium B.V. |
|---|---|
| Address | Kleine Gartmantplantsoen 10, 1017 RR, Amsterdam, The Netherlands |
| admin@theinnercircle.co |
Do subscriptions auto-renew?
Subscriptions renew automatically.
Money-back guarantee
- The Inner Circle offers a money-back guarantee with a full refund
- You have 14 days to cancel and get your money back
The Inner Circle FAQ
How can I update/change my bank details?
The Inner Circle will not be able to adjust your bank account information after the first payment. To update your credit or bank card information or change your bank account number, please contact your bank.
How do I end my paid The Inner Circle membership?
You can control your subscription under the "Settings" tab. To end the subscription, simply uncheck the 'renew subscription' box and your full membership will be valid until the end of the period you paid for.
Will my payment details be saved in The Inner Circle site if I end my subscription?
Your payment details will be removed automatically and your full membership can only be extended when you personally set up a new payment.
What happens if I uninstall The Inner Circle app?
If you delete the application from your phone, your position will no longer be updated.
If I delete the app, will my account be deleted too?
Deleting the application doesn't delete your account. On your next log in, you will be asked to find your profile and all your messages and other information associated with your account will be available.
How can I change my name, age or e-mail address in The Inner Circle?
Due to security reasons, it is not possible for you to adjust or change your email address, name or age yourself.
Can I "unlike" someone in the Inner Circle?
Liking another member is a permanent action. It is not possible to delete or reverse the like.
How does the "Who's up for..." feature in The Inner Circle work?
"Who's up for..." allows people to initiate fun and creative ideas for a date. Others will see your idea and can click on the "Reply" button starting a private chat.
What does a "wink," "like," or "match" mean in The Inner Circle?
There will be no matches if you do not like any of the people that liked you. In contrast, you can send a wink to show a direct interest to another member, who can see the wink.
Why can't I upload or adjust photos in The Inner Circle?
Some of the features on the website are built in Adobe Flash. Therefore, it is important to have an internet browser that supports Adobe Flash. Most of the modern browsers support Adobe Flash, but not all have installed it by default so you have to check your computer.
Where do I reset my password in The Inner Circle?
Reset your password through this link: www.theinnercircle.co/auth/password
How do I block another member of The Inner Circle?
You can find the "Block" button under every profile. If this member behaved inappropriately, report his/her profile with the "Report" button.
What happens when I block someone in The Inner Circle?
If you feel that a user does not respect you and the other members, you can choose to block him/her. A blocked member will not be able to view your profile or message you any longer. Basically, you become invisible to this user.
Can I resell my ticket to another member?
You can do this through the app. Go to "My Tickets" under "Profile" and click "transfer tickets." A link will be generated which you will have to send to the buyer. Payment transactions will have to be done between you and the other member.
Can I get a refund for my ticket?
The Inner Circle does not refund tickets. So when the tickets are sold, you have to organise the payment between each other. Reselling tickets is at your own risk.
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Security
- Does The Inner Circle sell your data?
- No, The Inner Circle does not sell your data.
- Was The Inner Circle hacked in the past?
- No, The Inner Circle was never hacked.
- How accurately does The Inner Circle track your location?
- The Inner Circle tracks your approximate location.
- Do your The Inner Circle profile pictures or profile information appear in Google Search Results?
- No, your The Inner Circle photos and personal information will not appear in Google Search Results.
- Who can view your pictures on The Inner Circle?
- All The Inner Circle users can view your pictures.
- Is your phone number required for signing up at The Inner Circle?
- No, you can sign up at The Inner Circle without a phone number.
- Can you erase your personal data on The Inner Circle?
- Yes, The Inner Circle provides an option for users to erase their data.
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