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iDates Experiences & Opinions UK

Experiences and opinions of other visitors that were mediated via iDates.
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iDates is a dating app for singles aged 20 to 35 looking for casual dates and hookups
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Members in the UK320,000
Women / Men 27% 73%
From£4.99
Age 18-24 25-34 35-44 45-54

57 iDates experiences from real users

1.3/ 5
★★★★★
5%
recommend iDates
2%
got a date
57 reader reports
What readers liked
  • Many incoming messages and apparent interest
  • Easy registration and profile searching
  • Some users found genuine connections
What readers complained about
  • Fake or bot profiles and messages
  • Expensive coins and per-message costs
  • Women avoid meetings and offsite contact
  • Scam-like practices and misleading conversations
  • Evasive, generic, or repetitive replies
75 years
FxxkyxxVerified iDates user ★★★★★

They expect you to buy credits to keep messaging fake profiles ive got 100z of messages most are repeated 4or5times by different fake profiles at first i though yeah baby im popular lol then when i tried to exchange my phone no the reply i got was can talk on here for a bit first lol well no thx ill see you in court idates im taking you down you can sxxk my dinga ling lol

Does not recommend iDates
60 years
ChrisVerified iDates user ★★★★★

** AVOID THIS SITE UNLESS YOU LIKE BEING SCAMMED ** Every single 'woman' I chatted to was a fake. They were all scamming and intent on making money out of punters. Also, every lady is strangely ALWAYS online... I caught one out who allegedly lived locally, and she admitted that most of the 'ladies' were fakes. It is also noticeable that 'likes' come in favourite locations - why 12 women from Leeds (over 200 miles away) should all like me on the same day is a mystery. I suspect there is some algorithm being used, but I never quite worked it out. I used this site a lot at a low point in my life; never, ever again. Oh, and there is one profile on here using a picture of a very good friend of mine... ** AVOID THIS SITE UNLESS YOU LIKE BEING SCAMMED **

Does not recommend iDates
36 years
NonameVerified iDates user ★★★★★

TOTAL SCAM!!

Does not recommend iDates
51 years
JohnVerified iDates user ★★★★★

Everything! It couldn’t be more fake if it tried. Messages from practically everyone I viewed, then they chase me up why I haven’t answered…. I’m not stupid you are a con.. normally I’d be lucky to get a match 😂

Does not recommend iDates
47 years
Stacy ★★★★★

Total scam and waste of time, coins cost a lot of money just to send 2-3 messages then your buying more. I spent £40 on coins and got nowhere with any female. I did offer my number to a couple of women but they were just wanting to chat on the site. Money making scheme that’s all it is.

Does not recommend iDates
65 years
TomVerified iDates user ★★★★★

Everything as it is a complete scam. Lots of girls telling me how hot I am without even looking at my profile and I have no photo uploaded. A complete joke, don’t spend any money getting drawn in to bogus ‘chats’.

Does not recommend iDates
41 years
S HVerified iDates user ★★★★★

I made two coins purchases for £9.99 & £24.99 using PayPal. When I checked my PayPal statement later, found I was charged TWICE for both purchases, when I had only received coins for 2 purchases. I informed PayPal, that duplicates transcations had been made for these 2 purchases. Disputes were opened on the duplicate transactions with Boranu Online B.V. Who own idates, informing them they were duplicates, and requested they refund the duplicate amount. They responded by saying that the payment had been cancelled by myself or my bank, and I needed to pay the outstanding balance, and not refunded the duplicate transactions. They overcharged me & saying I own them money, when all 4 PayPal payments appear on my statement. Just a bunch of scam artists, do not give them your money . Idates Account closed immediately

Does not recommend iDates
39 years
grahamVerified iDates user ★★★★★

For a start no one is real obviously.2nd am quite good at computers and know how to check things out, so what I did was,,,,,,,,I took screen shots of different women and ran them trough a program I have, some of you's will know what it is but if you don't then i can't say the name of the program but it's easy to find out.. anyways all the people who I did run through and got a match for are not the real names of that preson nor are they aware that's they are on this site (suprise suprise).I have contacted two females who did set up a genuine dating profile but it wasn't on this site so it's obviously been stolen from a different site and used on here with a different name.. if you a real female age between 35 and 48 and is looking for a genuine relationship or going out having a laugh,then find me on SC or FB to find out more..its,Graham Parker..Newcastle upon Tyne.my pic is of my kids in a school pic setting.. hope to hear from someone..

Does not recommend iDates
70 years
seeker ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
60 years
Roger ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
54 years
Beetlejuice01 ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
55 years
Dick Moore ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
67 years
WildJag ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
56 years
John ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
52 years
Pete ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
51 years
bob ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
64 years
Craig Beuthin ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
27 years
Polfliet Jacqueline ★★★★★
Recommends iDates
46 years
Maurice ★★★★★
Recommends iDates
53 years
SimonVerified iDates user ★★★★★

You are immediately contacted by several women from fake profiles. I suspect they are all on commission as you have to pay per message to them. The whole thing is a scam!

Does not recommend iDates
46 years
simon ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
61 years
Richard ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
35 years
peter ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
38 years
Jack ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
78 years
Pietro ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
50 years
Bee ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
55 years
Jose ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
51 years
Jeff ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
66 years
Frank ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
69 years
Brian Rolfe ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
48 years
John ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
72 years
murphy1 ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
62 years
phil ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
51 years
nigel ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
40 years
Steve lewis ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
66 years
John ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
58 years
james ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
41 years
Karl ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
66 years
Padre ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
53 years
jason ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
69 years
Brian Rolfe ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
71 years
Phil ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
53 years
Dave ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
60 years
Kelly / Ivamouthful ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
70 years
bbbosh2 ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
55 years
Camilo ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
60 years
NoHassle ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
51 years
Mark ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
36 years
NeilVerified iDates user ★★★★★

Not been easy to use for me & coins are expensive !!

Does not recommend iDates
40 years
richardVerified iDates user ★★★★★

99% of the people on the site are employees of Idate just there to keep you chatting and topping up. If you chat with them you figure out pretty quickly that it’s all just bullshit to keep you spending. I have never written a bad review for anything before but I felt obliged to warn others about this unscrupulous site. Save your money folks. Go to a bar or something and make an effort to introduce yourself to somebody in the real world

Does not recommend iDates
46 years
MELVVerified iDates user ★★★★★

its just all fake. THEY DONT WANT YOUR NUMBER TO TALK, ALL THEY BOTHERED ABOUT IS WANTING TO CHAT IN THERE WHICH COSTS MONEY. IF THERE BOTHERED ABOUT YOU THEYD SNAP YOUR NUMBER UP...ITS 100 PERCENT FAKE

Does not recommend iDates
58 years
Falco Mueller ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
64 years
Jimixl14 ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
56 years
george ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
78 years
Don Harwood ★★★★★
Recommends iDates
33 years
jhonny4269 ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
31 years
Ganta ★★★★★
Does not recommend iDates
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