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Our Review

First and foremost, what are swingers? If you aren't familiar with the term, "swingers" are sexually liberated spirits who practise swapping lovers or partaking in group sex. Swingers can be a couple or an individual. Nevertheless, swingers tend to hate the typical dating process since sexually sharing lovers isn't the most conventional lifestyle. Hence, they prefer meeting at swinger gatherings where "Swinging" is acceptable and encouraged.

Here comes Real Swingers, a relatively new site dedicated to being the number one platform for swingers to meet and find each other. Geared towards more erotic themes and steamy encounters, does this site deliver on its promises or is it just a dark pit on the internet full of scammers and fake swingers?

In this review, we took a closer look at this dating website to see if it is indeed a legit swinger site or if it is just one giant swinging mess. To know more about the site's memberships, features, and prices, read on our review below!

Real Swingers Member Structure

10,000 from United Kingdom
Members activity
3,000 new members per month
Gender Proportion
43 %
57 %
  • Receives 600 daily organic visitors
  • Has an average of 18,000 monthly unique visitors
  • Has over 50,000 registered members worldwide
  • Very popular in the United States, the United Kingdom, Mexico, and Portugal
  • 30.14% of the users belong to the 25-34 age bracket

On average, Real Swingers receives up to 600 daily visits and racks up 18,000 monthly visits. Seemingly, these numbers are quite good, considering that the site has 50,000 registered members worldwide. It is particularly popular in Mexico, Portugal, the United States, and the United Kingdom. Majority of the members are within the 25-34 age bracket.

There is an almost even divide between male members and female members. With men taking up 57% of the population and the women 43%, you are guaranteed to have almost the same amount of chances of scoring a hot date with both genders. This statistics also reflect the swinger couples who are on this site.

Take note that the relationships that are often cultivated within the site are casual, brief, and sexual in nature. If you are looking for a long term relationship, then you are better off looking for other dating sites. However, if you want it to have a casual practise of the fine art of swinging, then you are just in the right place.


Age Distribution

  • 18-24
  • 25-34
  • 35-44
  • 45-54
  • 55+

Signing Up at Real Swingers

Real Swingers Registration
  • Signing up is quick and easy
  • Registration takes up two to three minutes to complete
  • Basic information such as gender, preference, and age are asked right away
  • Passwords are system-generated and emailed
  • No Facebook or any social media registration available

Real Swingers has a smooth registration process without being lax in security. There are no Facebook signups or any social media platforms, for that matter. However, there's still a security step the site takes to make sure their users are real and not scammers.

First, you must specify your gender (male, female, or couple) and pick what you came to look for in the site. The reason behind this is, your suggested matches would be that of your choice. For example, if you pick couples, all your suggestions are made of couples looking to swing. The same goes for male and female options. 

After that step, you must indicate your age, email, and screen name. You are then directed to the home page. So, what was the security step we mentioned earlier? If you noticed, you had not been asked to type in your nominated password. That is because the site generates a unique password for you and emails it to the address you've stated upon signing up. 

The password is final and unchangeable. This step ensures that your email address is legit. Your account will be twice as hard to hack, protecting your online activity and personal details from leaking out.

Making Contact on Real Swingers

Real Swingers Members
  • Like and dislike suggested profiles to create matches
  • Add members to your "Favourites" list
  • Paying for a premium account entitles you to become a highly featured user
  • Limited usability for Standard members
  • Most of the members' live broadcasts direct to a porn site

Real Swingers has essential features that are pretty standard for a dating site.  You can like or dislike suggested profiles that match your preference. If you receive a mutual like, that matches you with the other person. However, you only get one profile suggestion per day if you are a standard member. 

You can also wink at other members to let them know that you find them interesting. You can add them to your "Favourites" so you'll find their profiles easier, anytime. However, that's pretty much it for standard members. If you want to access the instant messaging feature of this site, see full profile and images, and watch other members' live broadcast, you need to upgrade to a premium account. 

One thing that might have disturbed us about this site is how clicking on some live broadcasts would redirect us to various porn sites. That made us wonder the legitimacy of this particular feature. It is safe to assume that only a few would do live broadcasts. Majority of the live videos would redirect you to various sexually explicit sites. 

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Real Swingers Profile Quality

Real Swingers Profile
  • There is an "Add Friend" button on each profile
  • Profiles are invisible unless you've added a headline, bio, and photo
  • Unless you are a Premium Member, viewing full-sized photos is restricted
  • Profiles are not that detailed or fully fleshed out
  • It is recommended to complete your profile to come across as a genuine and serious dater

    Profiles on Real Swingers are quite detailed. Your profile would remain invisible until you've added a headline, a bio description, and a photo. This strategy is quite effective in making sure that the members fill out their information. 

    You can also add photos, but unless you are a premium member, you cannot view other's photos full sized. We didn't find that to be an issue when we browsed through the site. The images, albeit a bit small, are still clear and easy to look at.

    Take note of some of the profile guidelines Real Swingers imposes on their members. Some of your added information might be rejected if you use offensive or abusive language, didn't fill out the field properly, and/or if you included an email address, phone number or home address (which the site strictly does not permit for safety reasons).

    If you'd want to add other members as friends and connect with them more, you can do so by clicking on the "Add Friend" button which is on each and everyone's profile. 

    Real Swingers Real Life Review

    "I am a newbie at swinging, but I do enjoy an occasional gathering here and there. Out of curiosity, I registered an account at Real Swingers. I wasn't really expecting much. Was just there for the heck of it. While I haven't hooked up with anybody yet and sadly, there's only so much you can do on a free account, I still enjoyed browsing through this site immensely. There are lots of people you can meet here. I'm sure I can set up a swinger date the more I browse through. A good website, especially for a not so popular lifestyle such as swinging." - Joseph, 27

    Design and Usability

    Real Swinger's overall design looks pretty average and standard for a dating site. Other than some sexually explicit photos, the site does not set up the romantic mood with its professional blue background and neat, white overlay.

    However, the site makes up for its user-friendly and well-organised buttons. You can keep track of your activity on the site because of the neat tracker this site has. You can see who would like to meet you, who you've liked, who are your mutuals. All of these are filed neatly at the top bar of the page.

    Indeed, Real Swingers has prioritised functionality over aesthetics. Still, the site is easy on the eyes and even easier to use.

    Real Swingers Costs and Prices

    Free Services
    • Registration
    • Profile creation
    • Upload photos
    • Search other singles in your area
    • Receive and send flirts
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    Fee-Based Services
    • Send unlimited messages and flirts
    • See all full-size public photos
    • Watch public videos of any user
    • See full profiles of all users
    • Search users by interests

    Is Real Swingers expensive or cheap?

    In comparison to other providers Real Swingers is average.
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    Duration / Credits / CoinsCostsTotal
    Premium Membership
    12 Months3.10 GBP / Month37.21 GBP
    6 Months2.93 GBP / Month17.55 GBP
    1 Month11.70 GBP / Month11.70 GBP
    Real Swingers Cost
    Payment Options
    • Credit Card

    A free membership will allow you to create a profile, upload photos, search for other singles in your area, and receive/send flirts. A premium membership grants you access to unlimited messaging, featured icon badge on your profile image, being shown first in listings, and many more.

    When you decide to pay for a premium account, note that the site auto-renews your subscription until cancelled. If at any time you want to stop your subscription, you may contact the customer support team. 

    You can purchase a 5-day trial premium subscription for GBP3.95.

    Special Features

    Real Swingers have a few special features that can make your experience on the site all the more fun and exciting. These functionalities help you increase your chances of scoring dates and meetups. Here are some of them:


    You can watch other member's live broadcasts when you click on "Videos" located at the top of your home page. Most of the time, the site redirects you to other sites that contain sexually explicit videos. If that is not your cup of tea, you are better off not exploring this particular feature.

    Meet Singles

    One profile per day would be suggested to you. You can choose between "Yes" if you want to meet them or "Pass" if not. Once you click "Yes," that person will be alerted that you'd want to get in touch.

    Wanna Meet You

    Whenever a member would click "Yes" on your profile if it shows up on their "Meet Singles" list, he or she will be listed under the "Wanna Meet You" tab. You can browse through this list to find quicker matches. 

    Mutual Meet

    If both of you chose "Yes" on each other's profile upon showing up on the "Meet Singles" tab, you would be notified of the "Mutual Meet." Your "Mutual Meets" are listed down to help you keep track of your mutuals.

    Our rating

    Signing Up: 4.0 / 5
    Making Contact: 3.0 / 5
    Profile Quality: 3.0 / 5
    Real Life Review: 3.0 / 5

    Editor's Conclusion

    Chris Pleines, Author at
    Real Swingers has a strong concept and caters to the growing niche of swingers' lifestyle. However, the site falls flat by merely having limited usability for its standard users. The features are pretty basic for a dating site. Its strengths, however, are its security measures, detailed profiles, and a legit higher percentage of actually going to a swinger party. If you are curious to try out the swinger lifestyle, starting with this site will give you a good idea. Sign up now and live your best swinging life. 
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    Real Swingers FAQ


    What does a free membership on Real Swingers give me?

    With a free membership, you are able to create a profile, upload photos, search for other singles in your area, and receive/send flirts. 

    What are the featured member benefits on Real Swingers?

    When you are a featured member on the site, you will have a special icon on your profile picture and your profile are shown first in the listings. 

    This does not only considerably increase your chances of success on the site, but it also shows other members that you are serious. After all, featured members get more visits to their profiles and get 10x more messages.


    How will my Real Swingers' charge appear on my credit card or bank statement?

    This charge will appear in your credit card statement as INFINITECONN.COM 888-842-2905.

    How much does Real Swingers charge for a premium membership?

    Real Swingers offers a different selection of pricing options and the ability to accept multiple foreign currencies for premium membership. 

    To view the prices on your currency, log into your account and select "Upgrade" from the navigation bar to see the site's current pricing. 

    My credit card keeps getting declined on Real Swingers. Why is that?

    According to the site, you can check with your card issuing bank to make sure that they are not blocking the transaction, or you can try a different credit card.


    How can I change my personal information on Real Swingers?

    You can do so by clicking on the "Edit Profile" link option in the user dropdown menu located at the upper right side of your screen when you're logged in.

    From there, you can open a number of areas regarding your personal information and preferences. Click the “Update” link at the bottom of each page after you make a change.

    My Real Swingers password is not working, or I forgot my password. What shall I do?

    The site suggests copying and pasting your password from the email sent to you. Make sure that your browser's cookie settings are no higher than medium-high. Also, try emptying your browser's cookies and temporary files. 

    If none of these solutions work, or if you simply forgot your password, you can reset it by clicking on “Forgot Your Password?” when you sign in on the website. You will be prompted to enter the email address you used to create your account.

    After this step, you will receive an e-mail containing a link that will reset your password. Click on it and type in a new password.

    How do I delete a photo on Real Swingers?

    If you want to delete a Public photo, go to the "My Photos" option in the user dropdown menu located on the right side of your screen. There, you will see your Main Profile Photo and other photos.

    To delete one of your photos, click on the picture you want to remove. You will see the selected photo bigger and the different options underneath. Select "Delete Image" and then press the "Delete" button in the dialog.

    To exit, click the X on the upper right-hand corner of the photo. Then, you will see that it is no longer part of your Public photos.

    How do I block a user from sending me private messages on Real Swingers?

    To block a user from sending you private messages, simply click the "Block" button. It's located below a member's main photo in the "More Options" area when looking at the given member's profile.

    Whether you choose Block Member, Report Spam or Report Abuse, you will have the option of adding a comment which will be visible to you and the site's administrators only. 

    Whether you want to post a comment or not, you need to press "Submit" to block that member. They will no longer be able to send you messages.

    How can I send a flirt on Real Swingers?

    Any member (basic or full) can send flirts to other users. 

    To send a flirt, you click on "Flirt," which is located directly below a member's main photo on the left of your screen. You can then choose a flirt from Ice Breakers, Humorous, Passionate or Expressive. 

    Review the selection under each category by clicking on the heading. Choose the flirt you want by clicking on it and press "Send."

    General Information

    My photo won't upload Real Swingers. Why is that?

    Make sure that your image size is bigger than 400x400 pixels (width & height). Likewise, the file must be a JPG, GIF, PNG or BMP.

    Why was something in my Real Swingers profile rejected?

    There are some reasons why something you added to your profile was rejected. 

    If you used offensive or abusive language, didn't fill out the field correctly, and included an email address, phone number or home address, the content will be rejected since the site does not tolerate any of those.

    Where do I find my Flirts on Real Swingers?

    They can be found in the inbox, like regular private messages.

    Can I join Real Swingers from outside the United States?

    According to the site, they can accept members from every country.

    Why can't my username be used in the Real Swingers chat room?

    The site's chat rooms are plugged into the system from a third party chat room which already has an established membership base that may already have your username/screenname in use. If your current Real Swingers username is already taken, you can use an alternate username.

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    Latest Real Swingers Experiences

    • A Sm*** 58 years

      The site appears to contain only fake profiles. Nearly all messages received came from people who had obviously not read my profile, due to reference... s made and they had probably been sent automatically. I never received a single reply after replying to the contacts. Also, due to there being so few people on the site that have paid a membership fee, when I did a search for contacts within 50 miles and with a 25 year age range, there were only 12 people who would had permission to reply to me. These 12 people were almost certainly fake. When I complained to the site to ask for a subscription refund, I was repeatedly ignored. I would urge anybody to avoid this site, if they are going to endure the same experience as I had. «»

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