Review May 2022 is an adult dating site where sexually adventurous people can practice erotic, BDSM, bondage, and fetish sex.  Whether you are just curious or want to explore, this site got you covered.


36,000 Members
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 76% ♂ 
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Success Rate:
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Age Distribution:
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  • Adult site for singles, couples, or groups who are into BDSM, Role-Playing, and other sexual fetishes
  • Submission of proof of identity is needed for account verification. Read more about Alt's registration process
  • You can watch live adult cam models for free
  • Despite the verification process, there are still reported fake and scammer profiles interacting on the site
  • Premium membership is available in 2 types and in 3 duration packages
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  • Pricing starts at £8.58 / Month - More Information
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Chris Pleines
Founder of Datingscout and Author of Online Dating for Dummies is an adult dating site especially for BDSM lovers and for those who would like to try out-of-the-ordinary erotic practices. If you want to be somewhere you can find like-minded people and if you want to intensely enjoy and satisfy your sexual fetishes, sign-up at

Who is for and not for?

  • Singles looking for hookups that satisfies their BDSM and kinky fetishes
  • Dominant or submissive individuals looking for their counterpart
  • Couples looking for swingers, threesomes, and couple fun swap
  • Singles who are looking for serious dating
  • Couples who are not on the same page in their relationship
  • Singles who want to fall in love and find a monogamous, long-term partner
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What we like and don’t like on

  • You can watch videos of live models for free for a couple of minutes
  • Profiles can be very detailed about a member's BDSM role and level of experience
  • There is a Purity Test that you can take to reveal how pure or naughty you are – results will show up in your profile
  • There are numerous amount of fake and scammer profiles
  • Customer support is unresponsive to billing complains
  • Not many free contacting features to use for flirting with other members if you want to test out the site first


Can you try for free?

Is expensive or cheap?

In comparison to other providers is in the upper midfield.
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Duration / Credits / CoinsCostsTotal
Silver Membership
1 Month20.54 GBP / Month20.54 GBP
3 Months12.35 GBP / Month37.05 GBP
12 Months8.58 GBP / Month102.95 GBP
Gold Membership
1 Month30.84 GBP / Month30.84 GBP
3 Months20.59 GBP / Month61.76 GBP
12 Months12.87 GBP / Month154.43 GBP's updated rates for GB
Free Services
  • Registration
  • Uploading a photo
  • Joining chat rooms
  • Flirt
  • Send Flowers
  • Add to Hotlist
  • Add as friend
  • Hot or Not
  • Search
  • Kink search
  • Live member webcams
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Fee-Based Services
  • View and contact members
  • Be on top of the search list
  • Be the first to contact new members
  • Access members' live and recorded video intros
  • Access to blogs, groups, and magazine features
  • 24/7 phone support
  • Access to ICQ, AIM, and MSN ID's of members in your network (Gold Members)
  • Read and send messages
  • Send virtual gifts
  • Pay-per-minute adult movies

Gold and Silver Members have unlimited access to all profiles. However, free members cannot initiate contact and view the profiles of Gold and Silver Members.

How can I delete my account and cancel my subscription?

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Who is really signed up here?

36,000 from United Kingdom
Members activity
13,000 active weekly
Gender Proportion
20 %
80 %
  • Most members are into or curious about BDSM, Role-Playing, and other sexual fetishes
  • Male members dominate the site
  • There are millions of members worldwide
  • Tons of reported fake profiles or bots
  • Active members are between 25-34 years old

People who belong to the adult dating community are lovers of BDSM and those who are beginners or curious, who would like to try bondage and fetish sex. members are not necessarily singles - they can be individuals, couples, or groups who have unconventional taste in bed. They are erotic fans, and they are individuals who practice role-playing when having sex. Some members prefer to be the dominant one, while others like being submissive better. 

Becoming a member is not only for those who have been practising BDSM. also welcomes newbies and those who are curious about this kind of sex dating. Most members just join to look for no-strings-attached sex. They are on the hunt for like-minded individuals who can satisfy their peculiar sexual fetishes. 

Males Age Range and Age Distribution

  • 18-24
  • 25-34
  • 35-44
  • 45-54
  • 55+

New members at in May 2022 in comparison

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Latest Experiences

  • Al***** 53 years

    Billing auto-renewed. Even though it was set to OFF! Customer services failed to reply to three emails. Site riddled with fake female profiles that se... nd their email addresses on first contact. «»

  • Simo*** 65 years

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Signing Up at Sign-up
  • Registration is free
  • Sign up as single, couple, or group
  • Complete the five-step registration
  • Verify your account by submitting proof of identity
  • Supply basic information to signup

Signing up for an account on only takes 5 minutes. The registration process involves 5 steps; all of which are required before successfully being able to create your profile.

Joining is free. When you register, you have the option to sign-up as a man, woman, couple, or group. That means not only singles can join but couples as well. In addition, you have to provide some personal details, such as your sexual orientation, body type, race, marital status, and role. Also, during registration, you will be asked to write something about yourself, but if you have no idea as to what to write, you can read’s Writing Ideas, a tool to help you tell others about yourself. has a strict account verification procedure. Before being redirected to your own profile page, you have to verify your email first because without having it verified, you will not be able to proceed.

Making Contact on Contacting
  • Have a free live video chat with other members
  • Add other members as friends or to Hotlist
  • Become a premium member for unlimited flirting
  • Upgrade to read and send messages offers several contacting options to its users. As a member of this adult dating community, you can have a live chat with live models for free. Also, you can add certain members, who you find interesting, as your friend or to your Hotlist. In addition to that, you can also search for members who are online and who are nearby.

    However, having only a basic membership has contacting restrictions. As a free member, you cannot send messages nor read your received messages. Also, you cannot send flirts to other interesting members. Therefore, to unlock all your contacting options, you must be an premium member.

    Then again, as a way of communicating with other members, you can still join’s adult chat rooms.

    Test for free Profile Quality Member's Profile
    • Detailed profile information
    • Viewing profiles requires premium membership
    • Shows the result of a member's purity test
    • Flaunt your blings on your profile
    • Some members prefer not to divulge information on their profiles
    • The profiles are quite detailed
    • Profile pictures are not visible to anyone for free

    As a member of the adult dating community, you can complete and update your profile details anytime. It is also up to you as to how detailed you want your profile to be.

    Most of the profiles on are very informative. Some of the details which can be found on a (male) member's profile are his endowment length and width and his circumcision information. In addition to that, also included in a member's profile are his/her (BDSM) role and level of experience. Some profiles also display the owner's AIM, MSN, and ICQ username, the result of his/her purity test (a set of questions which aims to measure how pure or naughty a member is), personality type, BDSM fundamentals, testimonials, friends network, bling, kinks, compatibility chart, and more. All these can help you have an idea about other members of this adult dating community.

    However, you will only be able to view other members' profiles if you will subscribe to a Silver or Gold premium membership. Therefore, if you want to get to know an interesting member more by viewing his/her profile, you had better upgrade your basic membership. 

    Special Features

    These special features will certainly help you make your online dating experience fun and help you effectively find a suitable match:

    Hot or Not

    Photos will be presented to you one by one. Then, for each photo, you will have to decide whether it's hot or not.

    Astrological Compatibility

    This section shows the zodiac signs you are compatible with, your Chinese zodiac (animal sign), and your sexual biorhythm chart. 


    Other members' written description of your desirable qualities. You can also write testimonials about other members on other profiles.


    These are small icons, which you can either create or grab from their creators, that you can make use of to make your profile or your posts more interestingly naughty or to simply show your personality to other members.

    My Kinks

    This is where you can customise your kinks and search for other members who are into the same kinks. 

    How can I delete my account and cancel my subscription?

    How can you cancel your Subscription?

    • You can cancel via profile settings
    • You can cancel via fax

    Will your subscription automatically renew?

    • Yes, your subscription will automatically renew. The notice period for opting out of automatic renewal is 10 Days.

    Is there a money back guarantee and do you get refunded the full amount?

    • Yes, usually you will receive the full amount back.

    How much time do you have to undo purchases?

    • You have 3 Days to refund your purchase if you don't like it. gives full refunds within 3 days after successful subscription. Longer than that, they do not provide refunds, unless on states required by law.

    Will your credits expire?

    • No, your credits do not expire.
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    General Information

    What is the difference between being a standard member and a premium member?

    As a standard member, you only have access to chat rooms and magazine message boards. On the other hand, being a premium member, you have full access to members' profiles and different email functions.

    What are the Popularity Privileges?

    These are rewards that you get when you have many profile viewers. If a particular number of members view your profile within a period of three days, you will automatically have free access to 50 members' profiles. 

    How can I receive Popularity Privileges?

    There are many ways in which you can be rewarded with privileges, such as writing an interesting introduction, uploading photos, recording sexy videos, having many testimonials, and posting in's magazine and advice lines.

    How is being a guest different from being a member?

    As a guest, you may enter the site and explore. However, to post something and to use the different features, you must be an member.

    What is the Purity Test all about?

    The Purity Test has different questions that reveal how pure or naughty you are. 

    I want to know more about the Fetish Consent Worksheet.

    The Fetish Consent Worksheet is a form that can be printed. It is used by play partners when negotiating in a scene. By agreeing to participate in different fetish acts, both you and your play partner can have pleasure in your sexual adventures without confusion as to what each other has to expect. 

    How and where can I view my billing history?

    Just go to My Account and click Billing History and Credit Card Info. Then you'll see your billing information.

    Account and Profile

    How do I change my username?

    Just go to My Account, click Change Username, enter a new username, then click Check Availability.

    What is ConfirmID?

    It is a third-party verification service that confirms members' attributes, such as gender, age, and body type. This verification aims to establish trust.

    What are Profile Highlights?

    These are background colours that are attention-grabbing. They show up whenever other members see your emails or see you in their search results. These highlights make your profile stand out from the rest. 

    How does Email Availability work?

    It allows you to stop other members, who don't match your Cupid settings, from sending emails to you. A member who doesn't match with you will only see a shaded area in your profile instead of the normal email form.

    What is Voice Greeting?

    It is a recording of your voice, introducing yourself to other members who are checking your profile.

    How do I record a Voice Greeting?

    Just go to your homepage and click the Voice Greeting link in the Profile box. When the voice recording software has already loaded, a set-up box will ask access to your camera and microphone. When you have already thought about what you want to say, click Record. Click Stop once you are done talking. If you want to listen to what you've recorded, click Play. Then click Save to add that Voice Greeting to your profile.


    How to use the Fetish Checklist?

    Click the Edit Profile link on your homepage, and click the Fetish Checklist link. Then you can enumerate the fetishes that you like, your preferred role, interest level and experience level. After specifying your fetishes, click the Save button to save your Fetish Checklist to your profile.

    What is Magazine?

    It is a page that contains member-submitted content, like poetry, advice, essays, and success stories. Whenever you submit your own content or give response/s in the advice column, you receive points.

    What is RSS?

    It is an acronym that stands for Really Simple Syndication. The RSS link lets you set-up your favourite RSS reader to regularly notify you about new posts in that blog.


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    Does sell your data?

    No, does not sell your data.

    Was hacked in the past?

    No, was never hacked.

    How precisely does track your location? tracks your approximate location.

    Do your profile pictures and/or profile information show up in Google Search Results?

    No, your photos and personal information won’t show up in Google Search Results.

    Who can view your pictures on

    Paid members.

    Is your phone number required for signing up at

    No, a phone number is not required for signing up at

    Can you erase your personal data on

    Yes, you can erase your data on

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    Final Results table

    Signing Up: 4.0 / 5
    Making Contact: 3.5 / 5
    Profile Quality: 4.0 / 5
    Real Life Review: 4.0 / 5

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    Company:Athelstan Enterprise B.V.
    Address:Hoogoorddreef 15, 1101 BA, Amsterdam, the Netherlands